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    December 05

    10 Things I Want To Do

    A few things I want to do in my life. . . . .
     
    1. Find my purpose- we all have a divine reason for being here!
    2. Spend time in HAWAII- aloha!
    3. Take ballroom dancing lessons
    4. Learn to paint
    5. Visit Scottland and Ireland
    6. Learn to play an instrument, maybe the fiddle- not the violin :)
    7. Learn to sign
    8. Silly- but I would like to go to a sitcom taping
    9. Open and run a Christian summer camp
    10. Find a way to truly help people, using the abilties and spiritual gifts I have.
    December 01

    My Favorite Place

    I was thinking today about my favorite place (within my house anyway)..... and as insignifigant as it seems I think it must be our shower. For some reason the shower has always been the only place I feel truly alone with my thoughts. Growing up as the oldest of three kids, with a large age gap between myself and my brother and sister (I am 8 years older than Bethany, and 10 years older than Jonathan) there was always chaos and lots of noise in the house. Even my bedroom wasn't safe from the ruckus lol, they would pound on my door and yell for me until I let them in. (Dad- was it any wonder I took 45 minute showers?)Anyway even now, in my own house with much less noise and much more peace (sorry Jon & Beth) I still love long, hot showers. I love to get in there, crank up the heat, and let the water wash away the stress (not to mention the aches & pains) of the day. Sometimes caring for a 2 year old 24/7, with a husband that works long hours, the shower is my only escape & I thank God for it. I know my fellow moms agree that shower therapy is often just what the doctor ordered- granted a week long getaway to a different locale and some time alone with our husbands in a cushy hotel suite would be really nice, but we'll take what we can get! Hope you all have a great day!
    November 30

    5 Relationships

    Hey guys, I've had blogger's block lately so I sought out some writing prompts, this is my favorite: What 5 relationships have the greatest impact on your life? So here goes, in chronological order.
     
    1. My Mother: Aren't we all largely shaped by our mothers? They are with us from the get-go, if we are truly blessed they are always there, as mine has been. I am a lot like my mother in many ways, and her polar opposite in a few. Sometimes I say something a certain way or tilt my head like her, or make a facial expression exactly like her and it completely freaks my husband out LOL. I would say the biggest part of me that my mom "shaped" is my need to always be a lady, to be polite ALWAYS, and to always for lack of a better term be "well-behaved". Funny looking back, because most of these things did not rub off on my little sister, go figure.
     
    2. MY Biological father: Without getting into the intricacies of this situation- I have never met him, nor has he ever wanted a relationship with me, to the best of my knowledge. Sometimes I think his absence has effected me more than his presence would have. The fact that (whatever the reason) your own father, the man that should always love you, protect you, and be there for you A. has no desire to be any of those things to you and B. has no clue the impact his complete and utter disreguard has had on you. Because of this, deep in my subconcious I continue to be "not good enough" in most of my relationships, even now, not to the people who love me but to myself. It has effected my relationship with the only father I've ever known, my relationship with my mom (I needed her more as a child), And most importantly my relationship with God which leads me to # 3.
     
    3. God, my Heavenly Father: I have learned that He is the only one that will truly never leave me or disappoint me. That no matter what should happen I can turn to Him in every situation, no matter the hurt, big or small. I don't have the words to express the love I feel for Him.
     
    4. Boyfriend "No Name": I am listing this nameless person not bc of the importance of my relationship with him on it's own (bc it has none) but bc the heartbreak I experienced when we broke up, and later when we could no longer be best friends, moved me into the place I needed to be to meet and fall in love with my most important relationship (other than my relationship with God)- My husband!
     
    5. That's right you guessed it MY HUSBAND! He is my best friend and so much more. He is the love of my life and I can't imagine a life that he isn't a part of. He's had to overcome a lot thanks to relationships #2 & #4, and maybe a little bit with #1 (just kidding mom), but thanks to relationship #3 he made it through without a scratch! I love you more than you will ever know Trey.
     
     
    For anyone who is wondering why my sweet baby girl isn't on this list, I took this more as a pre-child topic, the ppl that shaped so much of who I would become as her Mama! I love you my sweet, sweet Gracie girl!
     
     
    November 29

    Yada, Yada, Yada. . . . .

    Lately (As if you couldn't tell) I have absolutley nothing to say. Everything is good, we're all fine, just kind of blah when it comes to "spacin". I hope you all are doing well, if you have time you should stop by Lana's space, she is featured on the Best Of this week. I've been getting our Christmas decorations out this week, we will put our tree up this weekend, and it's begining to look a lot like Christmas.......  I'm sure I'll have something to say soon!
    November 07

    CHRISTMAS VILLAGE

    I can't wait to put my Christmas village out! It was a gift from my mom for my birthday and I love it! We had a good visit, I only wish that it could have been longer, I'm already looking forward to our Thanksgiving trip to the MTNS.
     
     
    The laundry is calling- as always! Have a great day everyone!
    November 04

    Company's Coming

    My Mom ans sister are coming down today, to spend the weekend- yay! It's always nice to have them down for a few days :) I need to go clear out our guest room, unfortunatley it's become more of a catchall room than anything. Gotta go de-clutter!
    October 22

    Christmas Shopping

    I love Christmas shopping. Every year I vow that I will begin my shopping in January or at least by February, and that way it's not so much all at once. Well that hasn't happened yet but last year I started in October, and this year I started in September, so maybe by 2013 I'll meet my goal lol. I love two things about Christmas shopping:
    A. finding the perfect gift for someone and B. finding a great deal. I probably spend too much time picking out the right present, but I want it to be something the recipient will truly enjoy. I am not someone who can just go "pick something up"-   I'll be a while. I've made a good dent in my shopping, I'm probably 30% finished and my Christmas cards andready to go, I just need to update some addresses and get stamps. I'm already thinking about how I want to decorate and it's not even November yet, I think if we were gazillionaires I would desigante one of our gazillion rooms a Chirtsmas themed room, heck maybe a Christmas wing lol. I hope you all have a great day!!!
    October 21

    Talking about Something to think about

     

    Quote

    Something to think about
    A friend of mine emailed this to me the other day and I thought that I would post it here. This isn't the first time that I have seen this. I also thought that the rest of you might be interested in this. I have no idea the extent of the truthfulness of it but it would be worth researching to find out. I plan to. I hope that you all have a fabulous weekend and may God smile down on all of us!
     
     
     Subject: If You are A Working Person Whose Had To Earn
             The Money You've Been Paid Read This.
             KEEP IT GOING!!!!

             2008 Election Issue!!
             GET A BILL STARTED TO PLACE ALL POLITICIANS ON SOC. SEC.
           This must be an issue in "2008." Please! Keep it going.

         ----------------------------------
            SOCIAL SECURITY:
            (This is worth reading. It is short and to the point)

            Perhaps we are asking the wrong questions during election years.

            Our Senators and Congresswomen do not pay into Social
    Security and, of course, they do not collect from it.
             You see, Social Security benefits were not suitable for
     persons of their rare elevation in society. They felt they should
     have a special plan for themselves. So, many years ago they voted
     in their

            own benefit plan .

            In more recent years, no congress person has felt the need
     to change it. After all, it is a great plan.
            For all practical purposes their plan works like this:
             When they retire, they continue to draw the same pay until
     they die.

            Except it may increase from time to time for cost of living
     adjustments..

            This is calculated on an average life span for each of
     those two Dignitaries For example, Senator Byrd and Congressman
     TomDeLay and their wives may expect to draw $7,800,000.00 (that's
     Seven Million, Eight-Hundred Thousand Dollars), with their wives
     drawing $275,000.00 during the last years of their lives.
             Younger Dignitaries who retire at an early age, will
     receive much more during the rest of their lives.
             Their cost for this excellent plan is $0.00.
     NADA...ZILCH...
            This little perk they voted for themselves is free to them.
     You and I pick up the tab for this plan. The funds for this fine
     retirement plan come directly from the General Funds;

             "OUR TAX DOLLARS AT WORK!"

           From our own Social Security Plan, which you and I pay (or
     have paid) into,-every payday until we retire (which amount is
     matched by our employer)-we can expect to get an average of $1,000
     per month after retirement.
             Or, in other words, we would have to collect our average of
     $1,000 monthly benefits for 68 years and one (1) month to equal
     Senator Bill Bradley's benefits!
             Social Security could be very good if only one small change
     were made.
    &

    Blah

    Nothing to say today, although yay the computer is up and running. . . . .
    October 04

    UGHHH

      
     
    MY COMPUTER POWER CORD IS DEAD.......
    October 02

    I Would Have Enjoyed Life More If. . . . .

    This is from the Misadventures of Mark Lowry, the chiristian comedian , I found it on his website- so funny and true, pay careful attention to the last few lines.

    The Misadventures of Mark Lowry

     
     
    I now know what Noah knew!
    (From the January/February 2004 issue of Homecoming Magazine)
     

    Last April 7, when I went to the lake for the weekend, I had no idea what I was in for.

    I have a houseboat. It's really a mobile home on floats. The whole thing is made out of tin, so it's a wonderful place to sleep when it's raining.

    Usually.

    Well, it started raining around 9:00 or 10:00 p.m. I turned off the TV and started listening to the sound of raindrops gently tapping the window as I laid in my bed. (Or, is it 'lay in my bed'? Or, 'lei'? I always get those mixed up.)

    Anyway, I was prostrate on the bed (I sure hope I have that one right), thanking God for such a beautiful evening. My houseboat has always been a place of peace and rest. Everyone who has ever stayed there says so.

    I was just about to nod off when I heard it coming. At first, it sounded far away. In the distance. Faint. Like the rumbling sound you hear before a thunder clap. But this thunder never clapped.

    The sound was coming closer and closer - like a freight train rolling down the tracks. I've never seen a train on our lake. Yet, this rumble got louder and louder. My heart began to race. I'd never heard anything like it. My Attention-Deficit-Disordered mind began to spin horrific scenes of my impending doom. I thought Saddam Insane had nuked Nashville and the mushroom cloud was headed in my direction.

    Then it hit! Woo Doggies! A tornado!

    The boat began to buck and rock, creak and crack and lean sideways. It sounded like the Concorde was landing on the roof. I was thrown from my bed. My life flashed before my eyes. I reached for the bedroom window. I tore back the curtain and saw lightning streak across the night. With each strike, I could see the wind was blowing so hard the rain was flying sideways. Then another flash! The back rope that anchors my boat to the shore had snapped and the other two were barely hanging on.

    I thought about jumping out of the boat and running across the lake... But, then, I remembered, "I can't do that!"

    The electricity was out, so I stumbled to the front of the boat. I looked in the direction of the pier next to mine. When the lightning flashed, I couldn't believe my eyes. I saw a black-and-white snapshot of Pier 2, broken, flipped upside down on the bows of several houseboats. Right after each flash of lightning, all was black again. I could see nothing.

    This couldn't be happening. There were people on those boats. Lightning flashed once more and I saw that it was true. Broken legs of the pier stretched into the black sky like the fingers of a monster in a scary movie. I thought of Cape Fear.

    I got on the two-way radio and discovered that everyone was okay - upside down but okay. No lives were lost. Everybody made it through the storm.

    The next morning, I went upstairs to check things out. The wind had shredded the tarp. The chairs, table and loungers were blown to the front of the boat and were piled on top of each other. It looked like an altar call at youth camp.

    The houseboat-dwellers met at the store to drink coffee. We do that every morning. Mostly, we tell tall tales and wild fish stories. But, that morning, we talked about the storm. When I told them I thought terrorists had bombed Nashville, the ladies laughed and the men just rolled their eyes and shook their heads.

    Going through a tornado was frightening. If I had known, in advance, I was going to live through it, I would have enjoyed it a lot more.

    I think that's the way it's going to be when I get to Heaven. I'll probably look back over my life and think, "If I'd known I was going to live through it, I would have enjoyed it a lot more."

    Well, guess what? I am. And you are, too! Live or die, sink or swim - Death doesn't win! We're gonna live through it!

    See ya,
    Mark

    September 30

    Dryer Safety

     
    Hi everyone, my mother in law emailed this to me and I had never heard of this before- it definitley seemed worth passing along!
     
    Dryer Safety . . .
     
    > I had a wonderful morning, the heating unit went out on my
    > dryer!  Why does everything seem to fall apart this time of
    > year!???
    >
    > The guy that fixes things went into the dryer
    >  and pulled out the lint filter.
    >
    > It was clean. We always clean the lint from the filter after every
    > load of clothes.
    >
    > He told us that he wanted to show us something.
    >
    > He took the filter over to the sink, ran hot water over it.
    >
    > Now, the lint filter is made of a mesh material - I'm sure
    > you know what your dryer's lint filter looks like.
    >
    > WELL......the hot water just sat on top of the mesh!!! It didn't
    > go through it at all!!!
    >
    > He told us that dryer sheets cause a film over that mesh that's
    > what burns out the heating unit. You can't SEE the film, but it's
    > there.
    >
    > This is also what causes dryer units to catch fire potentially
    > burn your house down with it!  He said the best way to
    > keep your dryer working for a very long time (& to keep your
    > electric bill lower) is to take that filter out & wash
    > it with hot soapy water & an old toothbrush (or other brush)
    > at least every six months.
    >
    > He said that makes the life of the dryer at least twice as long!
    >
    > How about that???!!!! Learn something new everyday!
    >
    > I certainly didn't know dryer sheets would do that. So, I thought
    > I'd share!
    >
    > Note: I went to my dryer & tested my screen by running water on
    > it.
    >
    > The water ran thru a little bit but mostly collected all the water
    > in the mesh screen.
    >
    > I washed it with warm soapy water & a nylon brush & I had it
    > done in 30 seconds. Then when I rinsed it the
    > water ran right thru the screen!
    >
    > There wasn't any puddling at all!
    >
    > That repairman knew what he was talking about!
    > This is information worth passing along.
    > NOT ONLY COULD IT SAVE SOMEONE'S HOME, BUT IT
    >COULD SAVE SOMEONE'S LIFE.
    September 27

    Campaign For Real Beauty

    Some of us will never be blonde. Some of us have wrinkles, freckles, and short legs. Some of us have hair that is curly, frizzy, grey or all three.  Most of us have not seen our abs in quite sometime. Ladies-Dove is on our side.
     
     
    A few months ago Dove launched the Campaign For Real Beauty, and these simple, honest ads have touched women everywhere. Their first tv commercial as you may remember, featured thousands of women taking off (and tossing into the air) long, straight, blonde wigs- revealing all shades, textures, styles, and lengths of hair. As someone that has has tried (to no avail) and spent plenty of money in the process to achieve straight locks in some shade- any shade of blonde, I loved this commercial.
     
     
    Below is the ad that has been been plastered all over magazines, tv, billboards, and the internet for weeks. Only 2% of women describe themselves as beautiful- how do you define real beauty?

     

     

     

    September 26

    Real Estate Retake Today

    My retake test is today- I'm nervous. As you may remember I recieved an 86 on my last test, but I needed an 87: UGH, Which by the way is passing on the state exam (you need a 79) but not on the school's test. I'm so afraid of failing again. Granted I will be in good company, most people fail the first one and many people have to take it...... 3 and 4 times. I almost didn't post this incase I don't pass bc I'm not looking forward to coming back here with my tail between my legs bringing with me bad news- but so many of you have asked about it and I appreciate your asking :) Remember me at 6pm today, and 7 and 8 and 9  & 10 too bc it's a 4 hour test.  Pray hard! I'll keep you posted. . . . .
    September 23

    GUESS MY AGE

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!! Join me for a little birthday game won't you? I don't think I've mentioned my age, and I'm curious about how old all of my space friends think I am- you can't offend me so guess away, I don't think anyone can nail it......
     
     
     
     
     
     
     

    September 21

    Fall Is Around The Corner

    I have just finished putting out all of my fall decorations and I love them. If those cool fall temps would just follow suit I would be thrilled. I just repositioned the kitchen table and with one pivot it actually looks much bigger, funny how moving a piece of furniture can change a room.
     
     
    I don't know if any of you have seen the previews for Reese Witherspoon's newest movie "Just Like Heaven", but I can't wait to see it, it looks really good. My birthday is Friday and thats always a great time for a movie  Have any of you ever noticed how many September birthdays there are? Apparently late December and January are fertile months lol.
     
     
     
    My sweet husband just got me both the Mr. Men and Little Miss Book sets for my birthday and I love them. He had to track them down online and order them from amazon UK I think. They are children's books and I wanted them to collect for myself and to read to our child(ren). Okay, okay I've been reading them to myself too lol.
    September 20

    Speaking With An Actual Human

    This just in: The next time you call a corporation you may actually speak with a human being, thanks to this handy dandy website Find-A-Human.
     
    Granted somedays I would rather hear an automated voice that does not consider me an idiot for having a customer service question, that actually speaks clear English with the mere option of a second language, that doesn't sound like it would rather be sitting naked on burning shards of glass than gracing me with the presence of their ever jovial voice.
     
     
    Personally I never  saw this coming but apparently Renee Zellweger has filed for an annulment of her 4 month marriage to Kenny Chesney, I know you must all be just as shocked as I am. . . . . anyhoo.
     
     
     
    Hope you all have a wonderful annulment free day!
     
     
     
    September 19

    Home Sweet Home

    It feels so good to sleep in my own bed! On Tuesday afternoon we decided to go to Boone for a few days, we were rolling out as Hurricane Ophelia was rolling in. We had a nice trip and I never feel at home like I do when I see that sign going into town. My family lives in the same community they lived in for over 200 years, to say we are deeply rooted there is putting it mildly, in fact most of the people that live there have those same deep roots. Of course there are the newbies that have only been there for a mere century. I know a LARGE majority of the people that live there, if not by name at least by face. Who says you can never go home again? It's nice. Still it's nice to be home with my things and my bed. I hope you all have a great day!!!
    September 16

    We're fine!

    Just wanted to let everyone know that we're fine, we went home to Boone in the mountains for a few days, we will be going back on Sunday- thanks to everyone that prayed for us!!!!
    September 12

    Ophelia

    Ophelia- what kind of a name is that anyway? It just sounds bad. Currently the hurricane has weakened with winds of 70 mph, moving northwest at 2 mph towards us. Now anytime any hurricane no matter how "small" comes ashore, there is always the threat of tornados, like the hurricane itself isn't enough to worry about. The hurricane is expected to strengthen but I however, am fervently praying that it will weaken until it just dissipates into nothing, join me won't you?  Everyone is still very on edge because of Katrina and our governor has already declared a state of emergency as a precaution. On our way home last night from dinner we saw a FLEET of military vehicles and apparently a LOT of national guardsmen have been sent here. Anyhoo just keep our area in mind as you go about your business today and tomorrow.